This whole newsletter issue about identifying what’s keeping you stuck is great, but this part kicked me right in the feelings:
Often, when I’m stuck, it’s because I’ve made up a game for myself and decided that I’m losing at it. I haven’t achieved enough. I am not working hard enough and I am also, somehow, not having enough fun. These games have elaborate rules, like “I have to be as successful as my most successful friend, but everything I’ve done so far doesn’t count,” and I’m supposed to feel very bad if I break them. It’s like playing the absolute dumbest version of the floor is lava.
Adam Mastroianni
This Builds Character 